26 May 2021 – Day 58 of my personal challenge to become a blogger by writing here on my WordPress site, while studying the process of habit formation.
Juliette Denny points out that, as well as praising yourself for a job well done, you also need to be able to see progress, so that you can praise yourself overall, as the new habit begins to show beneficial results. What’s the point otherwise, dear reader, of all that effort?! Juliette suggests that we tend to underestimate the importance of the immediate praise, as we finish the behaviour and we also underestimate the importance of the assessment and praise over time. These two elements, regularly and humourously attended to, mean that we do not take the effort for granted, but rather acknowledge the achievement and a job well done…as we should!
Juliette led me to explore the Hook Model work of Nir Eyal. Nir describes the success of the internet giants at hooking us in, time and time again. They lead us to believe that their service is irresistible and, in return, they get the big bucks. By default, they become the dream destroyers, as we end up with less time for beneficial habits. They have imposed a habit on us, that some of us try to resist, but, like a fish on a hook, getting free may be a challenge.